The Relationship Balance

There’s a concept that I’ve come across in watching dating situations and relationships that is so wide-spread that it plays out almost EVERYWHERE.
Here’s what I see…
In virtually every relationship, there’s a cycle and a balance to it where one person is more dedicated or “into it” than the other.
And while this dynamic can ebb and [...]

Why Men Want To Date Forever

Men love to date and they have fun doing it. And I’ve got to tell you as a man that being single and dating was ALL I wanted to do for a long, long time.
No matter how wonderful the woman I dated was, no matter how the date or dates went and no matter how [...]

Honesty

It might seem a little odd that I’ve started a sex blog but most of my posts (all two of them) haven’t been about sex. Well, they have been but no in the physical sense of what to do when you fist a girl. I could do that but I figure there’s layout that needs [...]

5 Things Super-Happy Couples Do Every Day

Lord knows this is not the sort of thing guys brag about. But my wife and I have a ridiculously happy marriage. Really, it’s almost disgusting.
We paw each other in public. We goof around like a pair of simpletons. We basically act like giddy newlyweds in the middle of happy hour. Sometimes we’ll do something [...]

The Truth About Why Men Cheat

What makes men cheat? Marriage counselor M. Gary Neuman dug through past research on male infidelity and found that most answers came from the wife’s point of view. “Wouldn’t it make more sense to ask the guys?” he thought. So for his new book, “The Truth About Cheating,” Neuman surveyed 200 cheating and noncheating husbands [...]

Love Is Not A Feeling (Part II)

Related to: Love Is Not A Feeling (Part I)
I really appreciate all the comments people made to me on this subject personally, and also the individuals who responded to the blog post.
First off, I completely agree with you Marlajayne…love does take effort. You mentioned Dr. Speck’s theory that the act of falling in love does [...]

Why do men take second wives?

By DINA ZAMAN
Polygamy has nothing to do with culture or religion. Men, and women too, cheat because they can.
WHEN a male friend told me he planned on taking a second wife, all I could do was try not to choke on dinner. Are you serious, I asked. He said yes, he had fallen in love [...]

No Withholds

It may be true that we often seek in others that which we are not willing to give ourselves. This is a correctable mistake. It is not a good reason to be in a relationship. If we are only being with someone for what they can do for us, that is called dependency.
What we think [...]